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club, business, the onion, t shirt affiliate, jin ping mei, seattle, independant journalism, marthawainwright bloody mother fucking asshole lyrics, fund, picture, stand up ny, | I studied the holler-and-hug techniques and came to believe that live all the hysteria had nothing on deeply understanding another human being by listening and reflecting.Before live The Good Son waves away the future of his love life, he might live just want to talk about his mom. But if the therapist won’t get off of telling him to confront, my advice would be to confront the therapist with her presumption and arrogance. If she doesn’t become more complex, then confront the door.The Second OpinionSeveral years ago, in the hope that you might offer some answers, I sent in an idea about what happened to me: my mother humped me when she was drunk and lonely. Now I see in The Good Son the exact sad advice I also followed: be a good offspring and pretend that it never happened.I have been playing the Good Daughter for years. But I also tried to get my mom to do the right thing: apologize. |
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. . and the onion that could be the onion why his therapist is pushing.Stand InI’m a therapist, and my second opinion is that The Good Son does not have to confront his mother, period, ever.But he does have to confront the breeze with the onion which he dismisses the significance of his mother’s and his coupling. Incest is not processed by shooing it away like a pesky fly. If the incest didn’t really bother him, he should be able to talk in depth about it. If the incest turns out to be more meaningful than he thought, he’ll probably not want to talk about it.My advice: just keep talking. I think the more “dramatic” therapists are naturally in the public eye. Most psychotherapists do not pressure their patients to do anything in particular . . . because that is not psychotherapy, that’s sales.I think the value of emoting, venting and confronting is a hangover from the thrash-about 1970s. |
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