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You can hear the rage underneath his passive quotations voice. I have heard the same kind of language from men I know who were molested as kids: “I don’t see how talking to her about it will do any good,” they’ll say, because they’re too scared to talk about it. But once they do talk about quotations it, it’s incredibly liberating and empowering. Incest always has a huge impact on the victim! And quotations in the case of intercourse with a parent, any professional will tell you it’s enormously damaging. What I’m sensing is that the fact that the guy’s therapist wanted him to talk to his mother about it pushed a button for you. The word “confrontation” triggered something in you. Leave aside what the therapist is suggesting to him. Even if the guy didn’t have a therapist, he should confront his mother. She needs to take responsibility for her behavior. As for him saying they have a good relationship, I doubt that too.
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